We had just got back into some kind of semblance of a life when my unmarried brother, a priest , died very suddenly 8 weeks ago . Maybe we’re all insane. I told my dad that he shouldn’t do that, I was trying to be the binding force in this situation and I didn’t want him doing something he would regret as he was dying. I don’t know the reason for the change, or if she will turn on me as in the past. My dads cancer got to the point where I told my brother to put on his big boy pants and get his 6 down to the area for good because time was becoming very short and if I didn’t have help I would end up dead myself. Liar Go get a real job and quit trying to scam people here! To grieve the loss of a parent is already layered with difficult paths at so many levels. My dad sees what I am doing and goes plan on getting drunk tonight I see to which I had to explain what I just witnessed. We would not have treated our aunt this way so why do this to us. Some days i don’t even want to live:-( After my dad passed i had to take care of all his personal things like bills, accounts,pension,etc. I found it very helpful. No one told the name of the mortuary or any of the arrangements. In the past she would share things with me.6 days later she’s in his house and now there having unprotected sex. (They refused as I am on his employment contract as next of kin) Since then she has demanded a copy of the will so I gave it to her yesterday only to have her scream at me that this isn’t what her brother wanted etc. Not even 15 hours later I got a call from a Real Estate Agent ( that I found out my brother had contacted months before) to get my signature so he would start the process of listing my mom’s home. ... Ezeudo gave him this option that “that boy calls you father. It is unbelievable that parents could hate each other so much to not share that information. It can be amazing the positive support you may feel and have when someone has just passed away but it’s months later when things calm down, when your mind isn’t as busy after sorting affairs out and other family members get on with their own lives and don’t keep that close contact. Every day is another challenge and with my health I should not be under this amount of stress but my brothers don’t care and Im sick of all the games. Of course I held a lot back in what happen but that is what were going threw. WYG provides general educational information from mental health professionals, but you should not substitute information on the What’s Your Grief website for professional advice. Then they unfriended us. Also, when you do, you MUST listen to and value their concerns. What a shame you are for what you said February 1, 2019 at 3:32 am Reply, So their lawyer tried to steal from veterans my blood family members dont love us they love money more than family as i have heard the greedy ones i don’t claim as my family and they go to “church” but are “greedy” you should be “ashamed” you fucking bitch. My deceased brother and I shared our faith – my younger brother and his family have none ; they did nothing towards the funeral , contributed nothing financially or practically and my younger brother was ( allegedly ) according to his wife , a mess . My sister never came to my house to get the money. I feel like this is callous, and a direct insult to my Mom & Dad. , My brother did not follow this law, He made all the funeral arrangements and paid for them( dont even know with what money?) Litsa December 9, 2016 at 8:59 am Reply. Four of us sued to have her removed from the trust and we succeeded, mostly because she was so wrong and because one of my brothers is an attorney. You’ve helped me, thank you tonight. The disease progressed quickly for him. I changed her diet fed her three meals a day ( she had not had breakfast in years and years just coffee) I had her eating a waffle, 2 eggs, a protein and fruit regularly. Things that didn’t matter. When a caregiver seizes control when they have previously been absent from any supportive contact and doing so while people are vulnerable is a despicable act made. Paraphrasing Shakespeare, in the end, the sound and the fury signifies nothing. All due to their inferiorshit jealousshit enviousshit repugnantshit. I was trying to protect her for the pain she felt seeing her mom dying of this disease. My two sisters signed the permission and returned the documents to the cemetery. My Mom also wanted to be cremated and she said it was an unneccesary expense, calling me the worst word you can call a woman and demanding that I pay the interest on the credit card she was using to foot the bill until life insurance came through. I do everything I can to avoid her, and haven't spoken to her in decades. Joan Rollag June 19, 2020 at 10:28 am Reply. It was hell on her and the procedure took alot out of her. Karen February 12, 2017 at 4:29 pm Reply. I was overdrawn when my dad died so i worked as much as possible so i could afford to buy their share of my dads . She is an icy, control freak… After her recent actions… I swear, she is only walking around, living and breathing because I have a wife and 4 sons I love dearly… If I were single, with no family ties… I’d be sat in a cell right now! Lesina, I wish there was an easy answer. In total they got close to half a million dollars. During this whole process we wanted to make sure she was never alone, either my husband and I, or one of her four friends were there day and night. Ginger January 14, 2021 at 2:36 am Reply. little did i know that there was something behind her jokes. Myself and other sister lived 2-4 hours away, myself caring for a severely disabled adult son.we did our best, visiting often, helping out and arranging his care. For years I felt guilty but after seeing a psychic was told I could let it all go; it was meant to be. My advice to you is to STOP this person any which way you can, she is obviously NOT immediate family and if I were you, I would hire a lawyer regarding this matter. I am broken by this situation but determined to fight on , not just for my own children and their futures but for the futures of my brothers children as I know my late brother would have wanted to leave them this discretionary trust money . He curses her, she pays his power and water bills every month. My Mom passed away recently. And I feel like their actions have caused as to backtrack…and now we’re depressed and grieving again. Never thought this would happen in our family. Leave a Will , make sure discretionary trusts are properly notated and above all – BE KIND AND FAIR – put personal greed aside and think about what your deceased relative would really want to happen . Then that stopped/. My mother wouldn’t let me call an ambulance or give him medication… he was in agony. maria January 20, 2017 at 3:46 pm Reply, so my story from 4 months my father and my stepmother and my sister she was 20 years and my another sister she was 5 years all of them died in accident car the only one save in this accident is my brother he just 3 years old i`m 22 years i don`t know what i do i thinking about suicide but i cant leave my brother alone i really i don`t know what can i do, Eleanor January 20, 2017 at 4:02 pm Reply. Though it may be hard to convince everyone to come together, sometimes having a neutral party involved who is trained in conflict can help. Douglas July 26, 2017 at 12:27 pm Reply, I’m glad for this website, to know that I’m not alone. We ended up going away on a family trip to kind of remember her mom and start over. I want my brother laid to rest and I don’t have any say so please can someone guide me in the right direction. My mother started to deteriorate – I sent my son away so that I could be with her, my sister went to the Bahamas…. My sister had a rare terminal cancer. So, I gave up my life and made myself available to my mother full time, cause if not she would have had to pay someone, and I would have ended up losing another job when mornings came and she was on the floor due to the chair that lifted her up and slid her to the floor during the night. Mom had previously (numerous times) stated to me and my wife that she wanted to be buried and to have Dad’s ashes next to her at a cemetery.
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