Any advice would be amazing, thank you! This is why I cannot give specific advice/answers in the comments. She’s still heartbroken on many levels and finds herself getting angry every now and then; analyzing the crap out of whatever he posts. I’ve just read this, and I have the opposite issue. 9 Answers. Today was the day the ex un-followed me on Facebook, it was like a second breakup like you said, and it annoyed me because i was actually going to delete him today! Emani. I wish that I could advise, but I have too much to say to type it out and don’t have enough hands to type or hours in the day. Thx you for the love and for taking the time to share XOXO. Yup, big man here crying about it. Yep. I know how it feels like it’s never going to get better, but it will! He was telling people stuff about me and anytime I called him on it he would say I didn’t say that that’s not true. Of course there’s a reason why we have to switch the date. Thank you for this positive post! My interpretation was that he “was trying to be helpful” by preventing me from seeing him on his friend’s instagram account. Keep coming back here, reading the posts and keep the focus on you. BIG love to you from Los Angeles. Is your ex watching your Instagram stories? 6 years ago. Cody Simpson UNFOLLOWS ex Miley Cyrus on Instagram after she insisted they were still friends following split - as he steps out with 'new girlfriend' Marloes Stevens in Los Angeles But due to his studies and exam period he couldn’t talk to me properly and I always got angry about how little he tried as time went on. Maybe I am the immature jerk here. Thanks for your love, for reading and for your understanding. Since then he has taken down the pictures of us together and unfollowed me on snapchat and instagram. I hope he will get his life together. Him unfollowing you isn’t about you at all. This is so weird. Thank you SO MUCH for taking the time to comment/share. You deserve so much more xoxo. When things don’t match even if they are not wrong it’s a good way to make a decision. Depending on how a breakup went down, exes unfollowing each other on social media is pretty standard. hmm... why? He’s hurt either by you or by having to see your photos. But after our last texts 3 weeks ago, he didnt post anything and unfollowed me a few days ago. My ex hasn’t unfollowed me?! I’m so happy that the blog has helped Love you Vasiliki. Get Natasha’s 7 life-changing & Essential Boundaries straight to your inbox. Sometimes an ex will unfollow you to: a) See how fast you notice and b) When you do notice, he wants to see the level to which you freak out. You’re awesome. If I can get through it, SO.CAN.YOU. Is it when he posts something? So, to me this unfriending seems like he’s pulling my strings n did this to try to get a reaction out of me because he was annoyed by me ignoring him. The relationship my ex and I had was very complicated, there’s many things in his life that he still can’t proper manage.. still I love(d) him more than any other guy before, I always tried to understand and be there and I know that he never meant to hurt me.. he just couldn’t help himself and kept pushing me away.. My Ex Girlfriend dumped me last month and has a new boyfriend should I unfollow her on social media? Then this week, I was looking at my own Facebook and timeline and decided that I’m ready to let him go. Lol At first I was a bit shocked to see that. Because he is trying to move on with his life, that in NO way means that he is rejecting you or that you’re not good enough. I don’t really care about staying connected on Facebook or Snapchat because we don’t talk but are on good terms. He said he wanted me in his life still cause he may see me in his future just right now he needs to be by himself to figure himself out. I never comment on blogs, ever, but had to leave a thank you for this. Ex gf (Dumper) liking my brothers pictures on Facebook and Instagram. Thank you for you insight – I admire your knowledge!! He left her like maybe a week or 2 ago and looky, looky who he gets into contact with… me. But just recently he began to message me again and disappeared on me AGAIN! And after we got into a arguement (few days before a proper breakup)he was with this girl from his uni class where they went for a walk or something and she posted his picture in fb. Thank you ! I know you dont know the entire story but is that a coping mechanism or did he legitimately not care about me? Your writing is beautiful and sarcastic at the same time. Hello! Because he was so manipulative and he is a narcissist for sure. (I know it was too fast) our relationship was very serious from the beginning but he showed he had jealousy and controlling issues, he could be the sweetest and cheesiest guy but other times he could be like very cold with me, he fell into a depression after we got engaged and after 4 months decided that he wasn’t happy with me because I didn’t show him I could be his wife, I made a really big effort because he told me previously the things that he needed from me but still it wasn’t enough for him and we just broke up, we also had communication issues but I still get along with all his friends and family, they text me from time to time especially his mum, he wants to keep in touch with me and they have been so sweet but everyone but him wants to stay in touch and text me and after 4 months of our broken engagement he decided to unfollow me, I mean I find it very ridiculous since we are mature people that was going to get married and I get along with his family, but he was nasty he also unfollowed my family and friends… I feel so confused and hurt by him, he clearly wants to erase me from his life when I wasn’t even the one to initiate the break up. Its going to be a long road but already i feel happier, so thank you xxx. I’ll be too busy living my life, finding my own happiness – and maybe someone else into the bargain. Was what I said in the email really that bad that he couldn’t get over it? ? Yesterday he unfollowed me from instagram and now in snapchat. ), he posted something too. I gave him an ultimatum to grow up and treat me better /communicate better – final straw was not coming home til 10am the next morning from a house party I didn’t know he was attending and his phone was off. Dunno why he is acting like a dufus. I find it hurtful and disrespectful — as if he is saying “poor you, you need help with moving on so I’ll do you a favor and ask my friend to un-follow you.” Am I overthinking it?